Posing to sell, to empower. Portraying women – as they are, as they should be or as they are wanted to be?

To pose is the thing of the moment as is medium of the photograph. We take a lot of photographs these days. We want to be seen and we have every right to show off, show our faces and bodies, be here and there tell that we are doing this and that and are of some opinion. We are filling a space, a void of something with something and we have to wait and see what becomes of all that material produced. Material for others to see, material which creates an identity in the net. To make something out of it all phenomenons and success stories, awareness or distractions, jokes and rants. Picture is a power element which can be manipulated to tell a story which may be false, hurtful, manipulative, abusive, brainwashing or brighten the day like a puppy. It spreads fast, is simple and quick way to absorb and give information.
Now what comes to picturing women, which is a constant topic, images objectifying people get the most positive and negative feedback. Objectification of females as sexually ready and willing is big business and what comes to rights of women is the very issue of feminists to talk about, and not only feminists. Women who enjoy objectifying themselves defend their work as empowering to women and themselves. It is true body is powerful and sex is a tool. Sexuality as a product and playing with it is the you-cannot-have-it-but-you-can-watch it-game. Which makes me wonder who will be had if not that dream girl in the poster and in the ad? Desire stays creating ideals to become companions and girlfriends. Making us search for a perfect woman. The very problem with objectifying is what kind of reality it makes. We are quite vulnerable to images. We like to believe them, get affected by them, imitate and own them. More so when we see thousands of images daily. Products, ideas of how to live. Images are silent preaching and teaching of way of life. Do we even stop to think what kind of images we see and do we have choice over them how we see them and when we see them? Ads pop out without me wanting to see them on my screen. They are compulsory elements which hardly can be avoided. It is as reality was an object in which I am placed to play with other objects. And I am an object. Where is the freedom in that kind of survival game?
I think they who make entertainment have run out of ideas long ago. Why change a working formula.

Women in the entertainment business say they are in control of their image. Control is an important term what comes to manipulation and selling something. Image competition in entertainment is a compulsory part of the play. Who takes off most, who dares most. If daring is considered taking clothes off, what is the so-called freedom there? Who is in control if pop star does not have much on and she says she is in control as a mantra? Do you believe her? Do we believe her? Freedom here is the money which posing brings. Still it is good that Beyoncé has taken most of her clothes off to empower women and a strong stand for feminism in entertainment industry and is a feminist pop/r&b rolemodel. Maybe the word feminism will lose its unattractive and ugly reputation as difficult men hating ideology. And maybe the public will understand how important feminism has been and continues to be, with respect. Will it bring respect to women?

http://theweek.com/article/index/264932/for-women-on-the-internet-it-doesnt-get-better?utm_source=links&utm_medium=website&utm_campaign=twitter
And I believe it. Between 4Chan, Men’s Rights Activist groups, the Reddit Red Pill community,pick-up artist (PUA) groups, and anti-PUA groups like the one that Elliot Rodger clung to so dearly, the internet has allowed men to band together more efficiently than ever before to threaten and antagonize women. Every woman with an online presence has a story to share about unwanted contact, sexual harassment, and predatory behavior.”

out of proportion pointillism in the bushes

You can do it

Please stand behind my back to observe me. I need to be scaled, weight, measured, poked, humiliated, let know what I am in your eyes. Please fuck me in the ass, in my mouth, insult me any way you can. Stick it. You can do it. I have no doubt. You are so strong and powerful, beat me, defeat me, loath me. I am your scapegoat, your boxing bag. The more you do it, the more human you are.

http://www.lambdaliterary.org/features/08/13/bad-romance-writers-and-suicide/
And hang onto whatever feels permanent and real. Jeanette Winterson said that “Art saved me. It got me through my depression and self-loathing, back to a place of innocence.” But she also suggests a way out that is not suicide: “If you continually write and read yourself as a fiction, you can change what’s crushing you.” 

Those who do not act against bullying accept it.

Show me your face, show me your best face

Olin kävelemässä kotiin. Kadunvarren mainoksesta minua katsoi James Bond. Heitin häntä lumipallolla. Osuin olkapäähän. 2011  I was walking home. James Bond was watching me from the roadside ad. I threw a snowball at him. I hit his shoulder 2011

 

Experiment number 1

blueberry sounds

My cock, my realness, touch my realness

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It is interesting to draw pictures of women focusing the lens on what has changed in couple of hundred years and how rights and position of women globally has progressed.

Other than stay horrified one must act, still. What are we up against is colossal force of misogyny, dusty moralist conservatives, true men and women of faith and righteousness, religious fools who find their right more right than any others’. In Finland parliament voted against gay marriage this spring. I wonder what would they vote for in case of legalizing prostitution or brothels. They can hardly speak of it. Thought of paid sex is an abomination in Finland. Worldwide abomination against sex leading our behavior. We must take care of our morals don’t we. Right now morals is in the gutter, in deep hole of righteousness as ever and blaming circles go round in media and in minds who has done what. Who threw the bombs first, who has done what, who has not done much. Quit your apathy, ignorance, denial and break out of that cell of your mind.

Can you tell me what is the meaning of meaning.
How do negative attitudes towards sexuality get made? Or what is right thing to do.
http://www.independent.co.uk/news/people/joan-rivers-palestinians-deserve-to-be-dead-9656554.html
http://www.ft.com/intl/cms/s/2/812694ae-1db7-11e4-b927-00144feabdc0.html#axzz3A1IqGlAs
http://www.westerndailypress.co.uk/New-exhibition-Portrait-Lady-Bath-examines/story-22282590-detail/story.html
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cleavage_(breasts)
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Sorry Joan your face is so tight it probably is not safe for you to speak at all.

Heart of a feminist likes to pour more gasoline into flames. Keep on roaring.

It is always thrilling when conversations about prostitution break loose, every year people like to speak their minds. Talk is constantly more or less active for or against and idea of legalizing prostitution brings more fuel into it. Spitting rage against the industry is clear and loud and I heart the rage, partly, partly I am tired of it. Study tells Swedish model does not function. Nothing functions 100%. There is always a flaw, always unhappy people, hurt people, dead ones, misery and filth. How to make people more content with their lives? It appears prostitution moves places and countries, ways of dealing and doing while laws change affecting the industry positively or negatively.
Mostly I am pro-legalization kind of feminist, so a bad one,,,but my concern are the women and men who do sell themselves. The filth, violence and dirt are there, women are selling their bodies for men to use. Do you think it, prostitution, will be removed as it is a disgusting phenomenon and degrading to women? Poverty and lack of prospects in life is degrading. Some do prostitution voluntarily and why shouldn’t they. Some like the work. Fine. Curious is why hate against prostitution seems to be more on the wall and out there than hate against the actual reasons why many women end up in the industry, reasons which are poverty, lack of education and sufficient welfare.
To make women feel safer? Dream on. Admitting that you are just disgusted by it is ok. I would like to know what is it you are disgusted by. The act of sex with strangers, market of living meat, mortal sin, whoring and pure evil of unrefined behavior, degrading abuse, exploitation of women etc. Yes I am disgusted by hypocrites. It is a world of porn and sex.

http://www.equalitynow.org/sites/default/files/Nordic_Model_EN.pdf
http://aroomofourown.org/ghosts-of-prostitution-debates-past-by-samantha-berg/
http://time.com/3005687/what-the-swedish-model-gets-wrong-about-prostitution/