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Liposuction, eating disorders and sexual coercion: High fashion’s ugly secrets THURSDAY, FEB 13, 2014

http://www.salon.com/2014/02/13/liposuction_eating_disorders_and_sexual_coercion_high_fashions_ugly_secrets/?utm_source=twitter&utm_medium=socialflow

Experiment number 4

Experiment number 4

instant bench design with silver cardboard

Unordinary, unorthodox, offbeat, unusual, extraordinary, uncommon

Synonyms to something atypical and abnormal anything. What is strange, odd, peculiar, out-of-order is that something breaks a mindset rule that someone observing and organizing is used to and likes. Some like the comfort of not much change in the balance of daily routines. Why do we like such comfortable routines daily and why doing things in the same way everyday is comfortable? I find such patterns very annoying and seek to do things always in some different way to make a difference in my life. Even that makes me peculiar and offbeat. A beat never heard before, not even or especially here. Well it is so I get bored with the same old same old and like to think what else is there. Don’t you? As I see it those who try to change things face pretty huge obstacles by people who like their comfort unchanged. They like their benefits, rules and regulations.

One thing that I don’t appreciate is the amazement when someone tries something ’new’. For example commenting a girl skateboarding, belittling women who do the so-called men’s work, belittling artist’s work because artist is a woman. Belittling, belittling if girls dress like boys, listen to same music as boys, are interested in the same things as boys. Those things are not anything new and there are no limits what a girl can be interested in. Girls’ stuff and boys stuff are no more. But if you demand that there are girls’ stuff and your daughter does not like your limited ideas, what do you do?

Don’t comment oh dear, how is that possible. ENCOURAGE! over and over again. There is too little encouragement! Say that is marvelous! Learn to say good for you! Well done!
Learn to give good feedback. If you really wish to comment, encourage instead of belittling. If you are not ordinary, but offbeat let everybody else be too.

Probably exceptional, definitely.

Talk about exceptional nature of anything is always interesting. It is art of comparing, judging, selecting, placing and knowing. Choosing the exceptional is what we must do in order to know where to go and we must think it of ourselves that we are exceptional to achieve and accomplish. Exceptional is something immaterial, a set of qualities, standards and goals. This fact and desire to find ultimate perfection, satisfaction, the truth is puzzling surely and we like and must suspect and question to reach it, bring views of our own forward, which makes the whole of humanity evolve towards the better. To question ourselves and our goals. Perfection is never found due to its incomprehensible difficult nature and there possibly are several millions of perfections, incomprehensible and difficult. We can only get closer and closer, if we wish. We think and understand in so many different ways which is perfection of life that there is no end. As curious race it is our nature and duty to invent ourselves. We are construction sites under construction all the time. Although to me it seems those who truly seek and look for are few. It is a lot of work to work with yourself as for many that person is the unknown and scary in his/her incapability to discover himself/herself. It takes an ability to observe without bias and set expectations, without fear. Or with fear but ignoring the scare. Perfection is not a vendible object. Objects do not make perfection. They do not make anyone perfect.
We try to find exceptional outside of ourselves and often reject it in ourselves and in others. Exceptional can be too strange to understand and accept. Anything exceptional is out-of-order and banned. Exceptional is not something that has distinct limits. It does not follow given norms and rules.

http://www.nybooks.com/articles/archives/2014/oct/09/wonder-boys-genius/

”Niels Bohr and his colleagues demonstrated that in a quantum system the location of a particle prior to observation could only be described probabilistically, as a wave function. But once that particle is observed or measured, the wave function collapses, and the particle is found to have a determinate location. In reality as we ordinarily know it, everything has a determinate position rather than occupying an indeterminate “superposition.” The Copenhagen interpretation of the quantum phenomenon by Niels Bohr and his colleagues asserted that the act of observation itself caused the wave function to collapse.”

 

What do you serve?

 

Self-portrait, 2012

Another set of bench ears

experiment

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