Deflowered, the flower has been demolished into less than a flower in broad daylight.
Into less worthy of seeing. Flower has been a symbol of purity, nature, beauty,
untouchable fragility and it is gone. Child has been turned into a woman with a push.

Opened, what happens there. Child is the flower, woman is ground for the man to grow from and he can be a child, but is a man, a flower. Is he a bug, an insect, who flies around?