Question time

I looked to the sky and I saw a cloud in a shape of an exploded penis. So what is your question?

O’yes, I was wondering why when I am harassed there is the thought in the air that it is I who is in need, that the harasser has something I would want and the harasser has the right to continue harassing? Have been wondering it for quite some time, where does it come from the odd idea of female weakness and idea of neediness, that women are those who stand in inferior position always for the reason of false idea of fragility and never leaving the infantile level. In need of help, waiting to be given something, that women are those who continuously desire because they are incapable of being other than in constant child-like state without abilities. My question is is this paranoia of mine or do other women have the same experience?