Angel baby

Infant terrible

She is a she. She must be careful and strain herself. When she does things not permitted for girls she is putting something out of balance and finding stability of her own which is incomprehensible, unsafe and exciting. Norms for girl behavior are very strict, therefore they are fairly simple to break, if one has the nerve to do it and become infant terrible. Punishments will of course be severe, results somewhat expected and the girl will be shut out as she is improper, intolerable, smelly and dirty, always in trouble for testing limits set by adults. In the end all she tests is herself and where she can go with small gestures, small cracks in reality, cracks made by her.

She farts loudly in a restaurant (small farts smell the worst, but bigger farts make a disturbing element in a sophisticated environment). She starts singing in a bus when everyone else is silent, unexpected and clearly retarded. She pours milk on the table and strikes the glass out on the parquet leaving a dent on it. Naughty girl, what is wrong with you. Is that all? It does not take much to become a talking topic. She sees woman on balcony below her and pours water on her head.

Just wondering the amount of stimulation and noise needed to have an impact and get noticed. What is interesting and why.

Yes it is cacophony the media presents before us and why wouldn’t it (should it continue to make it more over the top with stimulus that in the end result is numbing for us to truly understand the insignificance of information today). Interesting is what is left untold, what is marketing and what is abuse of space for selling things, selling lifestyles and junk, what is pushed to our faces for us to adopt the already exploded package. There is no limit because we have to make a living, we have to do something, we have to stay connected and interested in what we are given as well as interesting, we have to stay up to date, know what is going on, what we should be and look like. And still we don’t know what is going on.
How do we define what is good, what is stimulating and interesting content seems to be extremely shallow straight forward line and have a body of well toned entertainer whom all wish to look like, so we work for it at Times Square (vomit freely, this is the place to do it). Thank you. Time well spent.
Madonna’s Trainer Reveals Her Workout Secrets, tick tock time goes by

 

Hundreds of beautiful Islamists stand before me

Ever since they were kids they all have dreamed of being on cover of Vogue

You should have better dreams.

Tough love, have you experienced it? That you have to make it completely on your own, make all decisions, deeds yourself, create a life from little or nothing feeling lost and abandoned? How do you find your strength there in a dark place?

I see it the idea of tough love an ideology by which to live for people who do not see nurturing and providing for other people a virtue but something that prevents personal development, sharing as something that prevents progress. It is very Spartan therefore ancient but it is practiced by lots of people still because there are lessons to learn about people and about life and to experience struggle is a strict and effective teacher. There are good things that follow this guide-book of harsh and unforgiving mentality. It is fascist maybe or near fascism, a rule where people are left to survive on their own, a kind of natural selection from which it is extremely hard to rise up but some people do still. If you do not survive you do not deserve to live, if you do not win and thrive you do not deserve respect. It is how I was brought up. I had to survive, or harshly put, die, to say it plainly and simply. Here people talk to graves not to other people, so I guess I’m being talked to when I die. I cherish the thought, as it is fucking disgusting it is something to laugh at. I have experienced as an artist, as a woman who used to be a girl that I must know my way myself, to shelter and protect myself as there is no one else to do it for me, so far so good. I have grown into a kind of tough love but in Finland I am not completely alone as the state provides for schooling, healthcare, infrastructure, housing, clean nature, equal rights, justice etc. My tough love experience still is not the toughest of all, by far. I really cannot complain, I would not dare to complain. I am very privileged.

It is the same to me as little boys who are sent to military academy in Russia (one example in Kronstadt) https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kronstadt. What does it actually mean that there is the word love when the feeling is wiped away as we normally think love is to support, share, understand and encourage? Life is tough without such love which is supportive. Does it mean that we will still lack and lose something if we are wholeheartedly supported and cared for? That we will not be able to find life in its entire full meaning when we are protected, overprotected, sheltered and given all we may possibly want: Not getting what we need though as we think we know what we need, what a person needs is to see what there is to get, can somebody give me what I want, what are the easiest ways to get those things desired, what there is to learn, why learning is essential in being human and what to become in the end as there is no end. Those things we will never fully know forehand, we just have to try to see, experiment and learn from mistakes. Life is unexpected, surprising, ruthless, merciless, one could think it is loveless.

 

 

 

 

The Joy Behar Show Transgender in America 2

Manhood that attacks is manhood of weakness and insecurity.

It is most strange and it is simple as hell and it happens over and over again. I’m personally sick of it and men who highlight their superiority give me the creeps. but hey that’s just me, maybe and most definitely there are women who really are turned on by such posing of masculinity where weakness is to be female. When you have to point out your manliness via cars, position, money, friends etc. it is disgusting. Backstabbing females are the other thing I really loath. You are the true scum on Earth. Take note. Sadly for such people to admit failure and making mistakes is obviously a pain and it tells of people who are unable to grow. Admitting one’s flaws is way to progress. I know for you it is also extremely difficult to admit that you are losing. Defense mechanism is very telling.

In search of manhood

Case is to find a working formula of how to become a man. All of being a man means there are naturally different men who accept this state of variety, men who can feel themselves whole men without macho attitude and discrimination, without pressure to mold other men. This is benefit of all people and to find new ways of perceiving manhood, masculinity, not via violent patriarch model, but via kindness, acceptance, curiosity and personal growth for all. 


Violence is to be escaped if it cannot be controlled and abolished. What else can women and children do when gangs of men see threatening and killing an answer. What is the question? What is the question to be asked as there are no answers other than those already in the air?

Question also is should extreme violence be answered with violence, with as much as we have got to protect those who do not want violence in their and other people’s lives? How do we stop epidemic of growing and expanding gangs and thugs who take over nations after they have taken over neighborhoods and cities? Gunmen and money men who do whatever they need to do to make their views and manners of doing business the only law, make their rules the rules of an entire country because administrators and politicians are corrupt. Nations full of people who have to serve criminals because there is no other choice, criminals who do not stop not even when they are stopped. There is always another one, other one to do the job that was stopped for a moment. Adding to the picture other nations around who have severely contributed to this lunacy along many decades and now refusing to accept immigrants and refugees from countries that clearly do not either want or are not capable of solving crises which last year after year. When there is no culture of democracy to begin with where do we begin? From the alphabet, from the very simple equations that make sense. Infrastructure to making a democratic safe state begins with basic things which are made indestructible, accessible and free. Grassroot first priority must be that there are clear rules which all obey. What is accepted and what is not to understand that there is a nation which needs and wants to make progress. Culture of fast fortune making and taking that fortune with force is too tempting when alternatives are scarce, and obviously punishments do not play any threat in a country where living fast is an ideal.
 
Clearly violence cannot be answered with violence, clearly, but aggression and death are languages that people speak and breath, straightforward monotonic order of arms, dealers and men. Yes, it is sadly the tongue of men and boys growing to be men since they have to become men who are fearless, merciless, greedy, childish in their needs, fulfilling their needs endlessly thinking that their manhood is majestic absolutely good and it has to be stated with certain kind of masculinity, marks of masculine power, vain bling. Culture of masculine, of macho is one serious threat to stability, health, security, progress, becoming and learning. For a true macho man it is impossible to honor women and children as thinking capable individuals who can have lives of their own, who can also become equal or even superior. Honor is in being a strong independent man who solves problems with silencing, threatening, killing, oppressing, enslaving etc. It is in traditions, religion, family, gender roles, upbringing, schooling, work, a division and putting the man on pedestal because of his gender, because of his role as a penetrating hero who masters his game of power. He is intoxicated by his manly odor and status to whom whores and Madonnas are very separate issues but all the same exploited. What/who is your leader in a free world where bossy men bully being unable of finding any other way to act? When men cannot change how they interact and make the world what hope there is? Actions of macho men are hopeless, totally doomed.
 

”At the end of July, the OCNF declared a gender violence watch for Mexico State, in which 840 women were murdered between 2010 and 2013 and 1,258 women were found to have disappeared between 2011 and 2012; over half were between the ages of 10 and 17. And though the laws are tough in an effort to combat femicide in the country, the murders are not often investigated as such, a roundabout reflection of the systemic misogyny that creates such astonishing numbers of dead and disappeared.” http://jezebel.com/mexico-is-more-dangerous-than-ever-for-womens-rightsac1726236049utm_campaign=socialfow_jezebel_twitter&utm_source=jezebel_twitter&utm_medium=socialflow

https://criticl.me/post/trumping-and-hyper-trending-how-we-are-hyper-trending-away-our-democracy-3804