Vulnerability of man. It would be very brave to show it, especially for a man. It would be brave to tell what kind of person I really am, he really is, what hurts me, what hurts him. How have I been hurt. To cry in front of someone. Strength is the other issue that goes hand in hand with vulnerability, accepting flaws and weaknesses, to make human appear in different light. Features that are seen as errors, begin to wonder why. Frailty to be accepted and found as undeniable part of human being. We are in the habit of correcting others and ourselves to fit the image of perfection.

How essential is it for me to understand myself before I can learn to understand the other? Very. What is the irrational part here?