Mostly, which is quite often, I face those demands and rules that are meant to bind us together to live in happy agreeing community without conflict as always in community that does not like change, that has a demand for outside and inside. I have wondered why there is and has been such a strong need to categorize and label and in my case and in women’s lives particular a violent need to define and know what is the absolutely correct thing to do, say, live, dress and so forth. I notice this because I unknowingly and knowingly break all the conventions there ever has been. It has been a puzzle in which I simply do not fit, so why force it. No reason whatsoever. Make life more easy maybe? Yes opinions on how I live my life, feel free to contribute..

Is it our need to keep up with something solid, safe and belong to a group of people who value conventional way of living? Why do we have to succeed as good obedient citizens and follow conventions which make us possibly something we do not want to be, to agree with conservative way of thinking that holds traditions dear? We all have an idea of what conventional means to some extent, but to force creativity and making new things into that mold is censoring, something made under regulations that make conventional aesthetics, not to change but prevail and stay in power.