Isn’t it?! Do we take it, do we accept it, do we have it. It is a part of being an adult and a worthy grown up takes responsibility of his/her actions and people close to that person, period. We have responsibility of ourselves and of others as well. There is no around it. Responsibility is there for you to have. Responsibility for your actions and things said. You make yourself via what kind of responsibility you are willing to take. To me it looks like this issue has blurred along the way. Excuses fly over and over of why you did not take the responsibility, why you thought it is not yours. Why do people think things happening do not concern them, do not belong to them. Things like neighbors kids, kids of our own, neighborhood, what we consume or some far away place having a major oil spill.