How has porn influenced how we view femininity and sexuality?

Is it porn or something else in the end that influences our behaviour? Humans’ endless desire and need to fulfil every whim and yearning is pretty unstoppable. To watch fucking on screen is similar to the idea of variety is found by diving into a black hole. Excitingly dangerous and forbidden, bad for you and the makers of porn quite often, addictive and nasty business, which business isn’t?

Maybe innovation isn’t needed there. It is very primal. So not something new every day or how far can one go and how dark? But of course gang bang must be tried out with a thousand men. Innovative is only the technology that makes spreading this news as fast as possible and us comment on it. Learning about this scandal makes social media. Maybe the most curious thing is the amount of money made. Wondering what problem got solved? Which human issue gets solved via watching porn? Is it we are not connecting or we like the humiliating aspect of porn?

The amount of porn is enough when all can watch and make it. Treat made possible by technology in every hand. In porn all we need is to see bodies, holes, penis sucked, penetrating horny sluts who voice their horniness by the pool. Imagining oneself in the sex scene does something for the viewer. You get repulsed? To call women and girls whores is very common place, which makes one wonder, is it porn, pop culture, social media, bad education, basic human behaviour or all this? Basic human need to humiliate and minimize. That there are two roles for women. Whoring becoming a way to make more money than in a regular job, is according to many regular oukei. Articles try to erase the stigma. Sluttiness is feminine, at least when looking at how the feminine is expressed by the trans community. Ultra-femininity is a state when regular job gets in the way. You can barely move in the corset. Maybe lashes are ok for a nurse. Nurses can be hot.

Pornographers represent freedom and sexual expression to very many, which is all over pop culture. Looking into the place of action all day. It is how one takes the spot as being looked at. Showing as much as. Thinking it is ourselves expressing truth, is weird though. Truth? The truth? Where is truth nowadays? Something unsayable? In Mars? We are meaty sexual beings recreating, in process of creating something to see. Expression is creating an odd view. First you see and then you express? We are so creative, we are creators. Or how is sexuality found now? By following and imitating? Looking in the mirror? Who makes the most money? How much simulating porn can a pop star do on stage and in a song? Rappers may go further..at least in parties.

Erotic art and prostitution play a part in human history. How big a part one wonders and how harmful is it and should be, since many seem to enjoy looking at sex, sexualized content and clearly sexuality is the word of the day. As if it is identity. We identify as fuckers and self-destruction is at the core of the issue of porn and sexuality. Clearly destroying one’s body and soul by plastic surgery is a symptom. Expression of brief existence and burning the brightest. Being oneself in this picture is revolting. Who the fuck are we or you? Yourselves? Who are these people who seek for themselves this desperately? Lost souls finding holes within? Or just having been influenced and brainwashed?

Somehow fun got erased and it looks miserable humans have made.

Most problems in the world are due to lack of knowledge, holding on to superstitions, prejudices, following too tightly on traditions, greed, ignorance, neglect and indifference. Understanding the circumstances, what can be done to them, what needs to be changed and what are individual tools, means, methods, gains and losses. To understand what one could do differently, to evaluate possibilities. What are my influences and how do I influence. Everyone is a role model, it matters what one does and says. Every action has a reaction.

How to make revolution in the world without killing anyone, in other words are arms and artillery necessary and to what extent? Is warfare primary cost for a nation to get built and on whose expense does this happen? There is a gigantic challenge and need to evolve peaceful. Involvement of people in making peace and understanding their part, which must go up and down on every social level and class. Ideal would be classless society. Scandinavian welfare model is more or less hopefully turning to that direction. What would that mean, what kind of progress makes society classless or is it just a utopia? It requires involvement of everyone to want that to happen. No one can think this or that is someone else’s problem. Biggest changing force on any level is money and who has it. Also what is the price of work and what is valuable work to do goes along with idea of class. What makes/gives value to working. Who makes the value and why? How is value made, how does money circulate and which part goes to public services. What kind of people use those services, what kind of reputation do public services have and how well can those services be reached. Who reaches for them, clings in them, is depended on them. The most ways we are divided are by possessions, wealth and what do we do in our lives. Family, education, gender, place of origin, habitus/habitude (bearing), ideas, thoughts, deeds, history and future plans. What kinds of plans one is able to make and achieve tells a lot about society one inhabits. 

Class and heritage which follow us are basically essential part of one’s identity, your roots and position to look from and at others and the environment. What is the perspective given (and taken)? How possibilities and advancing in life are seen in one’s class for you. What kind of mental atmosphere one’s class members make? What kind of place you are given and what kind of place you are able to take. How much effort one must see to pursue one’s dreams and individual plans. How much class and family dictates what you will become?