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You use hateful terms of radical feminists, as far as I’m concerned, you are not feminist at all.

It is a constant need for different kinds of groups of people to aid their cause by dismissing feminists, western, white or radical feminist, who disagree, debate, bring up issues that are contradicting, unpleasant, annoying, wrongly thought for many who think they are absolutely correct and can freely call themselves whatever they want as it is a free world and feminists should just without questioning support all causes that are by default without contradictions and true. Feelings don’t make things true and binary is not what we should live by as it is an invention of patriarchy. And they do hate feminists, who do and say as they see best and right, because feminists dare to fight back and seek the truth. Those hating feminists, who are many, use hateful terms just as fluently as any antifeminist and misogynist has ever done. It is nothing new and because of that, and that I for example, can have freedom of speech and expression and speak out loud what I think about complex matters and disapprove oversimplifying of very complex issues, those who disagree with me can do so. I am one of those who don’t want to think in a way women are supposed to think and do what women are expected to do and be like. Support and compassion has been scarce for me throughout all my life. When I didn’t identify as a feminist and nothing has changed after I labelled myself. It makes me wonder, is it the title that really bothers or is it something else, and my bet is it is the something else. Woman is a threat, capable woman is an even bigger threat. This combat one faces as a woman, be it white and western, privileged, rich or poor, straight or lesbian, is an on going one and I refuse to think otherwise for many to feel better. It is true one becomes a feminist for very personal reasons and seeks justice through that ideology as do I. All one has to be is female to be treated as inferior and wrong from day one. It is really sad. There are the questions women and girls go through, what does a woman look like, should look like, be like, sound like and do, be strong but dismissive? How about submissive, that is nice. Look beautiful but agreeing and nice? I don’t find beauty in there.

It is a strange thought that you will be corrected, completed and healed when you’ll become a real woman, you construct yourself to fit in and look it in the eyes of others. You seek happiness via body and looks, and confidence: good luck with that one.

Anybody using hateful terms about radical feminists, just bc they disagree with you, I will gladly block u.

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Feminists, they don’t do enough for you? How unfortunate. It is of course fault of feminists that things aren’t nicely simple. I hear trans-activist dismissing radical feminists, you just are in a loop which is called binary. I suppose the trans prefix is there for a reason, don’t you think. Let it bleed.

 

Taliban with small hands.

Taliban with small hands.

Sentimental value of photographs.

What is sentiment in a photograph? What does emotion stand for in a photo as an object and as a document? How emotion is on a photo and what brings the sentimental up and should it? Photographing important personal events is a necessity, people one knows are there together, places, trips, achievements, parties, fun, happiness, togetherness, comfort, safety, belonging, love, warmth. What is the sentimental there as it is evident it is a large part of the attraction photographing entails and a big part of what we wish to have for ourselves. Is it the purpose of photographing, to capture, own, show, memorize, leave behind and witness? To witness how we existed, how we were, have been, what is good there in us and what we now miss, what is different, what is the same, how we have changed. Photo is evidence and information to evaluate our progress, state of being, state of mind, state of living and feeling, proof of having lived, proof of something, existing. It is part of our bodies in a sense that photo is a moment in time we have lived, captured in time, having felt something and continuing that feeling by looking at it, maybe. Memorising emotions is peculiar.

We tag others and ourselves on photos by taking a photo, choosing that this is important and interesting. Making a personal view into an object and onto it something worth while to be held, achieved, archived and looked at, shown, an occasion with importance to us. We can be looked at and see what was there then, and is now. With a touch of a button. Holding a device through which we look at and approve of the becoming image partly in control partly not. Result is always a bit surprising. It is choosing of what to look at, what is interesting to us, how and telling a story of us for us. Probably the reason most people photograph is to have an emotional moment immortalised, smiling, being part of this image making, looking happy, showing off happiness, place where faces matter. How is an image emotional is an interesting question and what does a face mean. For most photos we have hold a meaning of memorizing and keeping a diary. It is a bit festive and an occasion to be photographed, positioning things and people in a frame, in a space, to be in spotlight. To have that possibility of going back and looking at a product which is a kind of miraculous thing in the everyday. Us being part of that product and producing it, images of ourselves on and on, how do they change? What is the personal and unique there? Just a wonder of modern innovation at reach for everybody to celebrate us, our personal capabilities as photographers, our personal views and how personal is now? What is unique and  personal now? A photo is a celebration still, always, no matter how banal the medium. But it is not banal as it is an occasion. The amount make it banal or the way people photograph?

When there is sentimental value placed on an image, it is tragic, it is personal and taken for personal reasons, so why show it in public? Meaning of rememberance for people seems to be high, as has sharing. Of having lost items that have sentimental value, personal value as items, photos are one of a kind. They have captured the person. Is it complete? Nostalgia is about sense of loss and time, distance between. Purpose of loss and beauty there is meaningful and full, of having lost something is for us to feel that things vanish, we ache because of this, things and people are gone for good and fragility there is what is beautiful. Photos reminding us of the state of imbalance, and happiness is a momentary state of ours.

What is sentimental value of a thing other than it is not just a thing?

Taliban with small hands. Is art dangerous?

Taliban with small hands

Hi are you passionate? Imagine someone licking your ear and send picture online.

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