Those things defining us. Do we have class?

As it is we no longer have class of people who are paid to create craftsmanship in handiwork. Handiwork is more or less arbitrary and random, lots of knowledge is lost. What has replaced handiwork and is there more value in the work done and left undone? We have not lost our need to do handiwork, experience physical work, to look at beautifully and carefully done design and detail in buildings, in public places and in furniture. We have lost class of beauty and time, historical continuation and certainty of something lasting. We do not have time for doing handiwork, money to pay for it, details that take time and last couple of life times or more, usually more. Such craftsmanship that takes years to master and build up. This all shows culturally poor times and blind way of thinking where money dictates how much time we have, what could be done and what we can do. It is no wonder unemployment is high, no wonder feeling of worthlessness is higher than high.

What does it mean to be working class? It has meant things taken for granted and any variation to those things is still intolerable.

What kinds of characteristics class has is a story of people belonging to a class and what is outside of a class. Point being there is inside and outside of class between which communication is little, formal and suspicious. They think they know each other, they think they know all. Meaning of class awareness has meant different things for working class than for the middle class, who have been more content in quality of their lives, this is my conclusion. Working class wishes to imitate the middle class trying to match the quality of life for which they are entitled especially what comes to schooling, healthcare, day care etc. Middle class are those who feel their material needs are met, their offspring has chances in life to make something of themselves to follow needs of their own, or their families, all people belonging to this class have more chance of being content in their lives and see a brighter future, healthy and prosperous. There definitely has been a phenomenon//way of making things happen, that can be called looking after each other within a class, a solidarity between members of the same class, an awareness of similarity, knowing people and standing on the same level which connects and which form of communication can be difficult to attain when one comes from another class, higher or lower.

Reality of classes, conflicts, barriers and contempt between them which historical massive load is upon us, on us and within us is something inescapable. My class, which I was born to, has been a working class continuation in several generations. I come from very strong idea of work being the most important factor in life, an honorable thing and measure of worthiness. Schooling has not been seen as important although to me personally it was the most important thing. I lived to learn and still do. Therefore it is odd in my family that someone studies as much as I have (it has been possible) and hopefully I still will. Not to mention that one is an artist which is not work at all unless one is famous and makes money and it was said to me artists come from different class than I do, but that probably is not working class related thought. It is class and gender related issue that my capabilities are questioned over and over again. There has been strictly work for men and strictly work for women, strictly work for those others who come from different background. It is as if I am escaping something I cannot escape even though I do not escape I create. I don’t continue in a circle which to me is a dead-end.

Reality of struggle, old-fashioned thinking of the working class is very much build in me as background, fear, suspicion, disbelief and guilt, root and as a political view to life. Politics has always been an issue and everybody has had an opinion, not sure if the case is so anymore. Indifference seems to be the case. Basic idea for working class is to find a job, get married and have children. It is the traditional way in which nothing much changes but the society around to which we must adapt. That is also the breaking point of working class: difficulty to adapt to new thinking, difficulty to absorb new ideas, people and thinking, difficulty to see bigger picture, difficulty to adapt that their children do not want the same anymore, that their children are not extensions to their parents and do not continue something that was but make history of their own. Maybe it is something all classes share and that is why they are classes, divided and separate. Thoughts of worthlessness or superiority are often passed on and they drag us down.

One part and problem of working class is and has been low self-esteem of which scare, doubt and refusal to accept new tell. Fear to be active part of change, create movements and become change via education, open-mindedness and being curious. There is curiosity within working class but there is also inability to look further and beyond oneself, inability to think oneself as something else. Panic over losing one’s job and not being able to think alternatives for oneself is one example of being fixed into position given and not believing in oneself, not being able to think oneself as capable for many things but stuck without possibilities. Working class has been put down this way and they put themselves down. They who have power have made people think they should be scared and continue history of fear. Work is basic building brick of working class. Those who are scared for losing their position and wealth want people who do not believe in their possibilities, do not rebel, do not try to find alternative choices for themselves and don’t jeopardize power of those who stand on higher ladder. Now maybe even more as work is scarce and hard to find threats play an important role. One detail is striking, how long it takes for working class to rebel, rebel for what cause should be a question and they should find an answer (rebel not for themselves only), understand that they are the key in changing anything in the end. It is probably easy to continue the same work, the same daily routines, watch the same TV-shows, see the same people and read the same news papers. How to survive the shock when people lose these familiar things in their lives? When it is not possible to drive to work, when there is no work to go to, when we have to change what we eat, what we do, think, what we wear and what we talk about, not because we cannot personally afford but because ecologically our life style is unsustainable and wrong? Working class macho life style usually looks down on anything that hints to hugging trees and saving the environment. Gays and artists are the worst and to them there is a distance kept which works as a safety zone. Reluctance to understand and take part could not be more clear. To say we don’t understand also means we don’t even want to try. Time of no TV, no malls as we are used to having and no private cars maybe?

Does the UK really need ’wealth creators’ and ’hardworking people’?

https://peopleandnature.wordpress.com/2015/06/14/towards-a-real-fusion-of-socialism-and-ecology/?blogsub=confirming#subscribe-blogFrom its side, since its fundamental critique is technical (we have a better science, ecology), not political, the green movement has failed to engage the working class at all. Both sides sit entrenched in their own theories and snipe at each other.”

 

RuPaul teaches how to be a drag Queen. Nothing to add.

 

Angel baby

How much is left for imagination? What imagination? Woman’s work.

What is shown when female body is pictured in flesh? There is not much variation nor much left for art. What about what is asked of women who are in show business: how do you look so youthful, what is your secret, who is you favorite designer, do you have a face lift, are your body parts your own, how many times have you been married, will this last forever, how old are you and will you keep on working, why do you work?

 The journalist mentions, it is extraordinary, that a woman poses in Playboy at the age of 49.

Ideology of tough love is to live a lie because truth and compassion are too demanding.

It is when people leave you, usually you are left alone to manage by yourself because you shouldn’t burden anyone with your issues. Life is a Teflon pan where things get fried without sticking. Idea is that human being must have strength in such amounts that force within will carry you on in life despite what happens to you. This tough love when it comes across at home, in school, in relationships and at work over and over again begins to make an interesting image of people and what life is supposed to be, how someone is valued and someone is not. It is an ideology of no comfort and no other than self-interest is that matters. You get ripped off and what you get is a matter of chance. Ideology where one person is a power plant which has enough power to keep oneself going on one’s own despite what happens to you. You just get up and feel great and thankful for each day. Personal matters are matters of yours only, not even parents should be concerned or be interested in what happens to a person really. Who is anyone really? It is because they are themselves in such a mess they are not able to handle inner life problematic as they see their children extensions of themselves but they can talk of their child to other people as their child is someone else they barely know if at all, as weird as it is and sounds. Most important is the front page is spotless and all is well, you say hello to your buddies and keep your lawn in good shape for it not to bother anyone looking that might tell there is something wrong. When compassion and empathy are this much scarce it is a matter of emergency and matter of asking what the fuck is going on and what is life suppose to be exactly? Suppose to be can be a wrong question entirely because who expects life to be something exact? Obviously quite many.

To talk about feelings is very hard, it can be intolerable. In psychotherapy it is the most important area to discuss, recognize and understand within oneself. It is seen as too simple and ridiculous but it is essential. We are highly emotional. Too little is put emphasis on the issue of emotions and too much paid attention to emotions of women which they cannot battle and win making wrong kinds of judgments based on prejudiced ideas that women are emotional therefore weak and men are not.

Misconceptions on what love is, how it is given and shown, confusion between concepts of hate and love, confusion all together of how to feel, talk about feelings since we all have them but we somehow must act we do not, and how feelings make us react or should make react. Too little thoughts on why feelings are such strong motivators in our actions and why many mix violence with love, justify violence with love and being hurt in love, mix love with ownership. There seems to be true confusion in what love is and when we hate, when we are acting in hateful manner is when we protect something mostly ourselves from possibility of change. Same kind of problematic happen with ideas of intellect, beauty, good life and so on, foundations of life, what is wrong and right, what is good to anybody and what can we give to that stranger or our children.

I’m going to be sick!

http://www.postandcourier.com/tilldeath/partone.html ”Couple this with deep-rooted beliefs about the sanctity of marriage and the place of women in the home, and the vows “till death do us part” take on a sinister tone.” 

 

That I went to the grocery store and bought balloons, milk and a mouse trap.

Conflicting interests does not mean there is necessary a conflict meant to happen. Life is a series of conflicts to which we have to be able to know how to react and deal with. What kinds of conflicts can we choose we will have? As it seems people are very good at making messes. Life=Conflict=Life=Life=Problem. How do you solve it?

Interests of one that are interests of that one person only may become obsession and a tunnel from which it is difficult to see other kinds of perspectives. Possessions and position to which that person is for some reason entitled to bring joy, wealth, responsibility and continuity, it feels there are things this person should rightfully have maybe because others have the same things or gender roles are such one is entitled or whatever the reason. There is a disadvantage and unequal situation since all do not get the same or more, people do not get to have anything they think they might want and need. What are things causing most conflicts in the World between people? Territorial infringement, an encroachment on a right, a person, a territory, or a property, bodily attacks, insults, misunderstanding of what is good and right to do because we tend to understand universally what is good very differently. One major misunderstanding is that other nations and the other gender/genders are not seen as equal, as respected human beings because the only reality for many is the one they are living in. For many people world of someone else is an alien world. It is impossible to  understand even if it was put into little pieces and fed to them, it is too strange.

 
I went to the grocery store and bought reality and experience of another person.