Does she understand?
Do you think she knows? Do you really think she knows? What does she know? Does she understand what is going on? Do you know what she knows? Does she know herself what she knows, can she explain it and what she does not know, but thinks she knows? Does she really get what is happening and what she looks like? It sounds off. Does she understand her position and what she has done and what kind of implications that has had? The thing that she has done?
Because it is her that has caused this conflict?